Understanding the Differences: Avoidance vs. Healthy Boundaries in Cutting Ties
Cutting ties with someone is a profound and often agonizing decision, one that many grapple with at some point in their lives. The reasons behind this choice can be complex, but most often, I see this choice stem from one of two possibilities: cutting someone off as an avoidance tactic and cutting someone off as […]
Alone but Not Lonely: Embracing Solitude for Mental Health
In the bustling world we inhabit, solitude is often viewed through two distinct lenses. I’ve worked with individuals who find alone time uncomfortable, even dreadful, and those who, either inherently or through personal growth, see it as an opportunity for reflection and contentment. Let’s explore these two perspectives and delve into the world of solitude, […]
Boundaries: The Invisible Lines that Protect Your Well-Being
Boundaries, though unseen, hold immense power in protecting our well-being. They define what we’re comfortable with and what we’re not. However, many of us struggle with the concept of boundaries, often feeling guilty or selfish when we try to establish them. This struggle often originates from our upbringing, where we may have been taught that […]
Healing After Cutting Ties: Navigating the Emotional Turmoil
Ending a close relationship is a difficult but necessary step for some people. It’s about separating yourself from someone who has played a big role in your life, someone whose experiences are intertwined with your own. Close relationships are often assumed to be lifelong sources of support, but sometimes that’s not the case. The pressure […]
The Search for Closure: How to Find Peace in Moving Forward
Acceptance and Closure When we are dealing with life’s tough endings – a broken relationship, a job loss, or any situation that leaves this gnawing sense that things should have been different – we often find ourselves in search of closure. This search can be a deeply personal and sometimes-agonizing journey to make sense of […]
Beyond the Bitterness: Building a Positive Parenting Framework
The Impact of Our Words As I begin to write about the challenges of co-parenting, I’m reminded of the countless conversations I’ve had with parents struggling to navigate the aftermath of a separation. The pain, the anger, and the frustration are often palpable, and it’s easy to get caught up in the whirlwind of emotions. […]
Rediscovering Yourself: Finding Your Way After a Relationship Ends
Opportunity When a relationship ends, it can feel like the rug has been pulled out from under us. We’re left standing, wondering who we are and what we want out of life. It’s a scary and overwhelming feeling, but it’s also an opportunity for growth and self-discovery. You may feel like you’re the only person […]
