Nov 16, 2020
Reaching out for help can be difficult for many of us. We must first come to terms with the fact that we are struggling and then accept that someone else can help us.
Seeking emotional support can be even more testing. Facing our emotional challenges and finding a way to express them can be a daunting task. We might find ourselves feeling guilty from explaining our situation and emotions to our family and friends. Sometimes, we find ourselves struggling to repeat the same story to the same people over and over again.
Finding an understanding of our emotional process is a challenge.
We might find ourselves being more reserved and isolated after feeling misunderstood by our friends and family. It seems that we are not meant to be facing life difficulties alone, yet there are only a few people around that might understand our unique struggles.
Support groups provide a safe space to be with others who are struggling with similar life challenges. A support group is designed, so others fully understand your situations with common emotional difficulties. It can also be an opportunity to gain the skill sets you need to move forward and learn coping strategies from others while dealing with your unique situations.
Why Join a Group for One Meeting?
If you feel overwhelmed, stressed, lost, or experiencing difficulties understanding your situation, I invite you to join a support group for just one session. Entering the first session at Circles online is risk-free and an opportunity to feel a sense of belonging.
At Circles support groups, we provide flexibility and complete anonymity for you to unload the emotional burdens. The complexity of the problems you face is shared with others and understood by other participants on a deeper emotional level.
It just takes one session to create meaningful connections on our chat-based group, gain information, and ask questions from others going through similar difficulties. You may find a sense of relief after just one session.
There is no commitment or challenges that you might face from on-site meetings. We provide a nonjudgmental gathering space for you to meet with people from different backgrounds and locations to connect. Connections happen quickly and effortlessly as you have no barrier or awkwardness similar to face to face meetings.
Take the first step into your relief by joining one of your personally matched groups today.
You only need one session to know that you are not alone!
Aug 24, 2020
“Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around.” – Fred Rogers.
As humans, we need social connections. We especially need to feel connected when we are sad or when times are tough. Interestingly, social relationships seem so readily available to us when times are good, and we are at our best. Yet, when times are tough, when we feel vulnerable and in need of support and care, that real human connection that we are so desperate for can sometimes be challenging to come by.
Imagine for a moment that you have recently lost your spouse to a long illness. In the days and weeks leading up to and surrounding your spouse’s death, you were rarely physically alone. Friends stopped by day and night to deliver your meals, to sit with you, and to offer you company and support. So many loved ones surrounded you, and you might wonder why it seems strange then that you feel so very lonely. Yet, when you think about it during this time, you were never physically alone. Sadly, this feeling of loneliness is all too common when we face a life challenge, but the good news is that it doesn’t have to be this way.
The Importance of Human Connection When we are young children, we are taught the importance of and how to live healthy lives. Nutrition, exercise, and making healthy life choices all rank high on the scale of healthy living, but what do we learn about the importance and value of developing a deep, meaningful human connection. Interestingly enough, we are taught very little about this and the importance of nurturing it. Human connection, it would appear, is supposed to come naturally to us and be readily available. Yet, our lives are so busy in today’s day and age, and our social connections play second fiddle to work, school, hobbies, and household responsibilities.
Research shows that despite the increased connection to others via technology, loneliness is on the rise. A recent report found that more than 60 percent of Americans report feeling lonely, left out, poorly understood, and lacking companionship. Research also shows that loneliness can be detrimental to our health and many researchers fear that it may be more harmful than obesity or smoking. Research also suggests that individuals who feel lonely are 50 percent more likely to die prematurely than those with stable, healthy social relationships. So it would seem then that connecting with others is more important than we might like to think.
What Does Connecting Mean? Brene Brown, a professor who specializes in human connection, believes, “We cultivate love when we allow our most vulnerable and powerful selves to be deeply seen and known, and when we honor the spiritual connection that grows from that offering with trust, respect, kindness, and affection.”
Connecting means being open and available and being present in time and space with one another. It requires both learnings how to give and how to receive. For connection to occur, it is essential to create a safe, nurturing space where compassion, empathy, and trust are readily available.
Finding Real, Authentic Human Connection in Emotional Support Groups
It is hard to connect, and it is even harder to connect when we feel vulnerable. Our culture tells us to keep our feelings inside to be healthy, to talk about happy things and not the things that cause us emotional pain and discomfort.
At Circles, we understand the struggle of finding real human connection, and we recognize the benefits that come from connecting people who are experiencing similar life challenges. We believe in the power of human connection, and we know that individuals and communities are most potent when all members are valued, listened to, nurtured, and heard.
Making an Online Support Group Work for You Suppose this is the first time you have participated in a support group. In that case, it is expected that you might be feeling hesitant or apprehensive about sharing your darkest moments with a group of people you just met. Don’t worry; everyone feels this way at first, and in no time, sharing in the group will feel cathartic and second nature to the healing work you are doing together as a group.
Circles make it easy to find the connection and support you need from people who can genuinely relate to what you are going through. We hope that you will find the support you need in one of our group sessions.
We are glad that you took the first step throward help for our members, new and old.
Here are some quick tips to help you get the most out of your experience with Circles:
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Thank you for your trust in Circles. We are in this together.
Dec 01, 2020
Support groups offer a space where people can share common issues, ranging from health concerns to emotional needs. In well-formulated groups, the members can express their honest thoughts and struggles without the fear of judgment. Support groups can be utilized as supplemental to medical treatments or individual therapy services to cultivate healing or personal growth.
Talking to others about our difficulties helps us see our situation clearly by reflecting on our own needs and emotions. At times, our immediate circle of support may not be equipped enough for the amount of emotional pain that we are encountering. Joining a support group can be beneficial in many ways, whether dealing with an emotionally challenging situation or suffering from a mental and physical health issue.
Support groups come in various formats and structures. Some groups may be informative, while others might be emotionally-process-oriented. There are groups for people looking for targeted behavioral changes, specific situational issues, health issues, and groups that serve therapeutic purposes. We are all in need of a support group of a proper shape or style.
Support groups are offered in many different settings, including religious organizations, nonprofits, therapy offices, health clinics, and online platforms. The other locations provide options for diverse support groups to find the necessary care. You will find a sense of comfort in being able to listen and discuss your emotional challenges with others.
These are just a few of the benefits of joining a support group:
We all need a place to share our tears and laughter with a community of people that understand our expressed emotions. Circles support groups offer the opportunity to have a balanced integration of sharing information, building coping skills, and processing emotions.
You will find that Circles offers a unique approach to connect you with your emotional community. Find your support group led by a mental health professional today.