Healing After Cutting Ties: Navigating the Emotional Turmoil
Ending a close relationship is a difficult but necessary step for some people. It’s about separating yourself from someone who has played a big role in your life, someone whose experiences are intertwined with your own. Close relationships are often assumed to be lifelong sources of support, but sometimes that’s not the case. The pressure […]
Falling over but then regaining our balance after divorce
Divorce can feel like being knocked off your feet by a rogue wave—unexpected, disorienting, and overwhelming. But just like any great surfer, it’s not about avoiding the falls; it’s about how quickly you can get back on the board and regain your balance. I have often heard the experience of divorce described as “one of […]
Codependent Men and Narcissistic Partners
Even in good relationships, things can get complicated and tough. When one person focuses too much on making their partner happy and forgets about their own well-being, we might call this ‘codependency.’ It’s not a diagnostic term but instead describes a behavior pattern. For a new client of mine, Jeff (not his real name), his […]
Saying Yes: Finding Your Balance
We each have so many tasks to do every day. From commuting to work to carpooling the kids to school and practices, running errands, the list goes on and on. One may feel that they often need more time to do everything they need daily. We each have twenty-four hours a day and how we […]
Understanding Codependency in a Narcissistic Relationship
I want to discuss something that’s incredibly important but often misunderstood – codependency in a narcissistic relationship. As a social worker, I’ve witnessed how these toxic dynamics can profoundly impact a person’s sense of self and overall well-being. So, let’s dive into this complex issue and explore how codependency intertwines with narcissistic behavior. What is […]
Your SOCIAL DIVORCE — One of Your 6 Divorces
Divorce is a life-altering event that profoundly affects individuals on a variety of levels. Most people readily identify two divorces: the emotional divorce and the legal divorce. Mary K Lawler PhD has identified 6. According to Lawler, there is never just one divorce; there are 6 distinct impacts in a single divorce! This blog explores […]
Your FINANCIAL DIVORCE. One of Your 6 Divorces
Divorce is a monumental life event that will reshape you on various fronts. While emotional and legal aspects are commonly recognized, Mary K Lawler PhD identifies six distinct impacts of divorce, each shedding light on different dimensions of this complex transition. This blog delves into the financial ramifications of divorce, drawing on research insights and […]
